I am a Trans*non-binary Domme,
an intimacy coach, a somatic practitioner,
and kink educator working
with the intersection of desire,
power, and embodied healing.
My offerings center on Somatic Kink, intimacy and navigating relationship dynamics. I practice as a somatic coach to assist you in discovering your goals, planning and development in reaching them.
For some, this can look like 1:1 coaching to plan and begin building the connections you truly desire. It might also include a therapeutically led D/s experience to explore and gain insight on creating and maintaining kink dynamics. Where Mx Onyx (the Domme) can lead you through gentle learning of dynamics, self awareness and hold a deeply cathartic space for your development.
This is not performance, and it is not therapy in the traditional sense.
It is a deliberate, consent-led practice that uses power exchange, sensation, structure, and presence to help people reconnect with their bodies, boundaries, and truth.
I work with a therapeutic lens grounded in somatics and movement psychotherapy, alongside many years of lived experience within the adult industry and BDSM spaces.
That combination matters. It means I understand the nervous system and desire, safety and surrender. Theory and what actually happens when bodies meet.
If you are drawn to kink that is conscious, embodied, and held with skill and informed consent, and you want to explore it within a container of trust and care. I invite you to book an initial session. As a Queer, Transgender, non binary coach; i present an exclusive safe space to show up as your truest selves.
People come to me for many reasons. Some are new to kink and want a grounded, informed introduction that doesn’t rush or overwhelm them. Others are experienced, curious for more, or highly self-aware and yet still feel disconnected from their bodies, pleasure, or sense of control. Some arrive through a coaching or healing pathway; others arrive because they are drawn to learning from a Domme who can hold them with clarity and intention.
Wherever you are starting from, my role is to meet you there.
Sessions with me are built on explicit consent, communication, and care. We move at the pace your nervous system can integrate and regulate with. I pay close attention to breath, posture, tension, response, and aftercare. Power is not taken, it is offered, shaped, and used with purpose. The aim is not to push limits for their own sake, but to create experiences that are enveloping, regulating, revealing, and deeply embodied.
This work can support confidence building, boundary – setting, emotional release, erotic self-trust, and a more honest relationship with desire and pleasure. It can also simply be a place where you are allowed to stop performing, stop explaining, stop masking and be guided. You do not need to know the right language. You do not need prior experience. You only need curiosity, consent, and a willingness to listen to your body.
If you are seeking an experience that is intentional, informed, and alive, where power is held with skill and care, I invite you to book a session with me.
Why it matters
When Intimacy and kink is approached somatically, it can become a powerful way to:
Build nervous system resilience
Explore boundaries without force
Develop erotic confidence and clarity
Experience surrender without losing agency
Somatic Kink invites you to make a relationship with power that is felt, not performed.
If you are drawn to intimacy and kink that is conscious, embodied, held with skill, and you want to explore it within a container of trust and care I invite you to book a session.
What Is Somatic Kink?
Somatic Kink is an embodied, consent-led practice that weaves together kink, power exchange, and somatic awareness. It uses the language of the body sensation, movement, breath, and nervous system response to explore desire, boundaries, and control in a way that is intentional and integrative.
This work is not about chasing intensity for its own sake. It is about presence, listening attentively and responding in time with clarity, embodiment and awareness.
In Somatic Kink, the body is not something to override or endure it is something to listen to. Every sensation, reaction, and emotional response is information. Power exchange or dynamic becomes a container where that information can be safely explored, rather than bypassed.
How Somatic Kink Works
Somatic Kink draws from somatic and movement psychotherapy frameworks, combined with the structure and clarity of BDSM dynamics. Sessions may involve experiential sensation, positioning, ritual, verbal guidance, stillness, or movement, but always with an attuned awareness of how your body is responding in real time. In the container of consistent coaching and curiosity.
What somatic kink is not
Somatic Kink is not:
A scripted scene designed solely for shock and awe
A replacement for psychotherapy or other formal therapies such as psychology
A space where consent is assumed rather than actively negotiated
Instead, it is a practice rooted in communication, choice, and aftercare, where your autonomy remains intact even as power is exchanged.
Who is it for?
Somatic Kink is for people who want to explore depth, desire, and an enlivening of their relationships.
You might be:
New to kink and seeking a safe, informed introduction
Experienced but craving something more intentional and embodied
Highly functional, successful, or self-aware yet disconnected from your body or pleasure
Curious about power dynamics as a tool for growth, regulation, or self-trust
You do not need prior experience. You do not need to know the “right” way to submit or receive. You only need curiosity and a willingness to listen to what your body is already communicating. When approaching this work, we simply ask for openness and curiosity
